Of letting go.

"But that’s disregard, you find another friend and you discard…"

The Fray

I found it funny how people could cry over about how difficult is 'letting go'...but then some friendships fell apart and I realized what it actually meant.

How it feels like someone just stabbed you in the chest. Letting go someone is the toughest job, ever. It's like leaving a part of yourself behind. That moment, your whole world comes crashing down...

But then you will eventually realize, losing one person does not mean it's the end of the world. Many more people are yet to come, and it's not like you won't be able to live without that one person.Next, you have to look at the positive side of it, let every mistake be a lesson. You will realize about how not everyone lasts forever. Focus on the things you learnt rather than being depressed. And if there wasn't anything you learn from them, I see no point in missing them so much. We often waste most of our life wasting on people who really shouldn't matter,letting them screw our happiness over and over again. You're living this life for a purpose, for a reason. Your purpose is to try to change whatever you can (for the good, obviously) and let go what you can't, because as a matter of fact, it will still be the same. Let go the sadness, the pain, the misery, the trouble..and just breathe.

Another thing, pain humbles you. It makes you realize that life can sometimes be tough. It makes you realizes you're not the biggest fish in the pond. So, a little pain is necessary, to cut your wings and bring you back to reality.

I myself have not mastered letting go, I still struggle, I cry, I scream, but in the end, I realize if they were worth it, they'd be there in my life, and I've got a lot to look forward to. I've got a long long way to go. A lot of new people to meet. A lot of new things to do. I realize, I STILL HAVE THE CHANCE OF LIVING LIFE :')